Over the past 8 months, we received oodles of questions from friends, family, those we've met
on the road, and Jaela’s blog readers. Many have also requested a tour of our living space.
So, as we begin winding down this EPIC adventure, I’m going to address as many of the questions as I can, and take you on a photo tour of our little home on wheels.
1. Where do you all sleep?
*Mom and Dad in the back master bedroom
*Randall on the jackknife couch that opens into a bed
*Dominic on the lower single bunk across from the bathroom
*Jaela & Maleah on the cab-over queen-size bed
*Samuel & Levi on the kitchen dinette that converts to a bed
*Lucy sometimes on the driver’s seat but usually sprawled on the floor in the way
*Nellie sometimes on the passenger seat but often sneaks onto Randall’s bed
2. How do you give each other space when the weather is bad?
*Usually, we don’t! Lol… It works most of the time. I might escape to the back bedroom
to work online planning our next road trip steps, doing family business-type stuff, etc…
but most of the time we are all in the main living space. Dominic can tuck into his
bunk when we’re not going down the road, as can the girls, but that’s about it.
3. What chores are the same or different than home?
*Well, there’s far fewer chores, which has been wonderful, and makes it a bit hard to
think about going back to home and yard responsibilities when we return to the
Midwest. Once we found our groove, I feel like life on the road is so much simpler in so
many ways! Usually though, we start the day by putting beds/bedding back away,
feeding the dogs, making phone calls if needed, sweeping/shaking rugs/vacuuming the
RV, getting the bathroom and kitchen garbages out, putting away the windshield cover
if we used it overnight, etc…Occasionally I’ll direct my humans through a more thorough
cleaning, which involves dusting, washing windows, wiping down the front end/dash of
the RV, etc… Mark does a weekly checklist of maintenance items on the weekend
(smoke alarm, CO2 detector, brake lights/turning lights, etc…). Once a month, he and
the older boys go through a maintenance checklist that is more extensive but not hugely
time-consuming (fluid levels on the vehicle, checking the roof for damage, etc…).
4. What does a “typical” day look like for you?
*There isn’t a lot that’s typical, to be honest. It all depends on where we’re going and
what we’re doing. Sometimes we’re driving a long distance, sometimes a short distance.
Sometimes we’re staying put! On average, we have to dedicate one day a week to
logistical things such as stripping beds & doing laundry, a large grocery run, crockpot cooking for the dog (yeah, that’s another story…), dumping our black & grey tanks and refilling our fresh water tank, other miscellaneous errands, catching up on finances and paying bills, repairing something minor, etc…
5. Where do you shower, do laundry, cook, etc….
*We eat in the RV most of the time, leaning towards simple meals for brunch and dinner. Sometimes we use the Blackstone griddle we carry in an outside compartment, but usually it’s the stovetop and the microwave. We do not have an oven. We also have a crockpot and electric fry pan on board. The fry pan gets used a lot. The crockpot requires running the generator for 4-8 hrs. straight if we are not plugged into a campground, so we don’t tend to use it very often.
*We use laundromats about every 7-12 days.
*When we’re hooked up, we use either the RV shower or a campground shower. We’ve
also been blessed to use showers in friends’ homes that we’ve visited along the way.
When we’re not hooked up (which is most of the time), we occasionally shower on
board, and most often go the route of the big personal, disposable washcloths. It’s not
ideal, but it works for this season of life.
6. How do you manage your water and sanitation needs?
*It’s SO awesome to have a full bathroom on board. We love it! And… we try to
minimize use when we can because that allows us to stretch out the time between
needing to find a dump and fill station. This means we try to use gas station bathrooms,
Walmart bathrooms, wherever we happen to be doing activities, etc…
*As for drinking water, we can use our fresh water tank if we need to, but we try not to
so we have that water for the toilet, shower, hand washing, teeth brushing, etc.. We
purchased gallon water jugs at Walmart and refill them along the way.
*We conserve water by using more paper plates on board than we would at home, and
by doing dishes every 2-3 days vs. every meal. That’s a killer for me, but I’ve learned to
adapt for the season.
*As for our fresh/black/grey water tanks, if we’re plugged in a campground (rarely), it’s
easy. Just like being at home for the most part. When we’re not though, and we get low
on fresh water, or our grey/black tanks are getting full, it’s time to find a dump and fill
station. We’ve used state parks, Camping Worlds, private campgrounds, truck stops, city
dump and fill stations, etc… Often it’s free, and on rare occasion we’ve had to pay up to
$20 for the service. When we’re dumping and filling, we can also get dishes done and
run several family members through an “army shower” at the same time, if there’s no
one in line waiting for the station.
7. How do you manage electrical needs?
*When we’re plugged in at a campground, it’s just like home.
*When we’re not, we have both a house battery and a generator to power our
electrical needs.
8. What do you do to keep busy on drives?
*Mom does the driving (yep, it’s true!)
*Dad does the map navigating and the homeschooling of the little boys
*Randall plays bass guitar
*Dominic does photo & video editing
*Jaela writes and plays her ukulele
*Maleah does online college classes and plays her violin
*Samuel & Levi do school and play various things
*All the kids play many games together, read, knit, talk, listen to podcasts, play with the dogs, etc…Occasionally nap. We try to minimize “non-need based” screen
distraction on the road the same as at home, so the 3 oldest with cell phones will limit
themselves to an hour a day for entertainment sometimes such as texting friends,
watching a ball game, music videos, etc…
And now for your photo tour! Be sure to check out the captioned explanations.
So there you go! Hope this post answers questions for those wondering "how do they do THAT?!" Stay tuned for your regular blog writer to be back soon!
God bless! Jean (AKA, Mom/Director of Operations/Master planner & organizer of "all the things")
remarkable! So glad you all could make this work! Good work Team Deming!
Love this summary of life!! It will be an adjustment back to off road life!
Whoa. That's awesome. Gotta have good organization skills to pull that off!
Makes me wonder if my family of 11 could manage the same....
Loved the tour and the info! Organization is essential, and you have mastered it! What an incredible family experience!